Divorce is one of the most emotionally difficult experiences parents can face – but they have to face it together for the sake of their children.
One thing that may help some parents maintain their equilibrium during these times is bringing a nanny into the picture.
How a nanny can be a lifeline for families in transition
Nannies are more than just caregivers. They can quickly become a “third parent” and part of the family. Here are some of the benefits they offer families going through divorce:
- Consistency and stability for the children: Divorce can turn a child’s world upside down. One of the best ways to counteract the chaos is to keep a child’s routine consistent. A nanny can help keep regular meal times, make sure after-school activities stay on track and follow bedtime routines across both households.
- Relieve parental stress: Divorce often requires time-consuming legal consultations, court dates and therapy sessions, all while managing work and home – and that can leave parents feeling the strain. A nanny can help relieve some of the pressure by handling daily tasks, such as school drop-offs, meal prep and more so that parents can focus without feeling guilty.
- A neutral, comforting presence: A nanny can be a neutral presence in the home, and that can make it easier for the children to open up and discuss their emotions. That can offer invaluable insights into how the children are handling the changes.
Ultimately, a nanny can be a much-needed support system for families going through a divorce. It’s important, however, to make sure that your co-parenting agreement carefully details how the nanny will be involved in the children’s care.